Anal Sex Toys: A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Play
Anal toys are designed to be used for, well, anal play. That means they’re optimized for pleasure, while helping avoid discomfort and even injury.
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×Our glass anal dilator set and silicone cone work together to strengthen muscles, stretch skin, and enhance comfort.
I designed our glass anal dilator kit and our silicone anal cone to work in tandem. The glass set comes with a true working understanding of how the three sets of sphincter muscles and overlying skin work, while the silicone cone has the perfect give that allows for the correct amount of friction to be applied to the surrounding anal tissues for maximum benefits.
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Train comfortably and confidently with our Glass Anal Dilator Set and Silicone Anal Cone bundle. Our three-step glass dilators help relax and strengthen anal muscles while enhancing skin elasticity for safe, gradual training. Complementing this, our color-coded Silicone Anal Cone increases flexibility, builds muscle memory, and delivers pleasurable stimulation—all while being waterproof and compatible with any toy-safe lubricant. Together, they support smooth, effective training to help you achieve new depths (and girths) in the bedroom.
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“The Glass Anal Dilator Set started my journey into bottoming and the Silicone Anal Cone expanded it to new depths.”
Yes, when used correctly and with proper hygiene, glass anal dilators are safe to use and easy to clean. Before each use, always check for any chips, fractures, or other imperfections.
We recommend cleaning each dilator before and after each use. First, rinse each dilator with water to remove any surface debris. Then, apply mild liquid soap and scrub well before rinsing with warm water. Once completely clean, place on a fresh towel and air-dry before putting them away.
Because glass is compatible with all types of anal-safe lubricants, the choice is yours. Our favorite is a silicone-based lube and we recommend applying copious amounts to both the glass dilator and anus.
Absolutely. For cold play, place the dilator in the fridge, and for hot play, run them under hot water. Please make sure they’re not too cold or too hot to avoid cramping or burns.
Both! While a cone may look intimidating, it actually replicates average to above-average girth. Our color-coded system is designed to help you reach your desired goal, not exceed it. But as with any toy, start slow and stop if you experience any discomfort.
You’ll want to clean your cone before and after each use. We recommend cleaning with soap and hot water, before drying completely with a microfiber towel. Another great option is to boil it or place it on the top-shelf of your dishwasher.
To protect the texture and surface of your Silicone Anal Cone please only use water-based or hybrid-silicone lubricants. Silicone and oil-based lubes can eventually degrade the cone.
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