The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts to Pleasure Your Partner

Dr. Evan Goldstein

The Fun Stuff January 24, 2024

Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching—don’t wait until the last minute to find the perfect gift! The candlelit dinner and heart-shaped chocolates are always appreciated, but we think you can get cheekier. . Besides, why go out when you and your partner can stay in?

This year, ditch the crowded restaurant and stay home to celebrate Valentine’s Day the way the God of Love intended: With great sex. The gift of pleasure never goes out of style, and your partner will definitely cherish it longer than a bouquet of grocery store roses. Plus, it’s a great excuse to show your partner that you’re as head over heels in love with them now as the day you met.

Scouring the internet for vanilla gifts is tough enough; looking for queer-friendly, naughty gifts can be just plain daunting. So you can find a gift you and your partner will love, we put together a sexual wellness gift guide that will help you give them the anal sex experience of their dreams. The best part? Every product is backed by science.

And, if you’re flying solo this V-Day, don’t forget to treat yourself! You don’t need a partner to live out your fantasies. 

For the Beginner Bottom

Let’s face it: Bottoming for the first time can be anxiety-inducing. , We’ve all heard our fair share of mood-bumming anal sex mishaps, but it doesn’t have to be that way. With our FM Explorer Kit, you have nothing to worry about! This kit has everything you need for a worry-free bottoming experience from start to finish, including two disposable, fragrance-free anal douches, a luxurious butt and body scrub, and a soothing butt and body cream. 

Price: $90

For Superior Playtime Prep

You may feel like you have to jump through a lot of hoops to prep for the ultimate playtime. But instead of taking, erm, questionable advice from your favorite influencers, simplify and fast-track your pre-play routine with our Daily Butt & Gut Fiber supplements. Taking just two tablets a day encourages a complete, consistent, ready-for-anything feeling e that will give you and your partner the confidence you need to take on anything – and anyone – that comes your way. Spend less time prepping and more time playing!

Price: $29.99 or $24.99 with a subscription

For Pampering Your Partner

Great sex isn’t just about play; it’s about intimacy. You need to make your partner feel safe, comfortable, and cared for by taking the time to get up close and personal… Like, really close. Nothing lets you do this better than a steamy shower for two. Use our Scrub and Soothing Cream Kit to make your most jaw-dropping shower sex scene a reality! It’s a blissful combination of our exfoliating butt and body scrub and our rejuvenating butt and body cream. Who doesn’t love a pampering session with a dash of passion?

Price: $70

For the Top in Your Life

Your top goes out of their way both in and out of bed to give you everything you desire. Why not show them you care with a little bit of cheeky humor? Sex doesn’t always have to be serious, after all. Our Daddy Hat is a fun, sexy way to celebrate your partner this Valentine’s Day. 

P.S.—20% of proceeds from the Daddy Hat are donated to SEICUS, so you can give back while giving your partner a memorable holiday.

Price: $29.99

For Setting the Mood

The most romantic sex scenes in our favorite movies start in candlelit rooms for a good reason. Something about seeing your partner bathed in the soft, warm glow of a burning candle just makes them irresistible. Rather than jumping right into bed (or the bath, couch, or kitchen counter…), set the mood with our Bedside Manner Candle. With its delicious bergamot citrus, clove bud, and cedar scent, it’s bound to make sparks fly. 

Price: $44.99

For After Care

Sex can be messy; once you and your partner finally manage to take your hands off each other, you’ll probably need to clean up a little. Stay in the moment by wiping up your partner and play area with our Bedside Towel. This towel is made of soft cotton that makes post-sex cleanup intimate and easy. Keep it in arm’s reach to make the most of both pleasure and play.

Price: $19.99


This Valentine’s Day, let love and passion flow freely with Future Method. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, a situationship, or exploring your desires solo, we’ve got you covered with an array of sensual sexual wellness products that are sure to enhance your intimate moments. After all, what better way is there to express your love than prioritizing you and your partner’s pleasure? 

About the author

Dr. Evan Goldstein is the Co-Founder of Future Method and the Founder and CEO of Bespoke Surgical, the leading private practice in health and wellness for gay men. He received his MD from the University of Medicine and Dentistry School of Osteopathic Medicine. Dr. Goldstein is the go-to butt and bottoming expert, having been published in Huffington Post, Men’s Health, Healthline, and more. Learn about Dr. Goldstein by visiting his practice,


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