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Education at the forefront–on topics both popular and taboo.

The blog started by the gay community, for everyone.

The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts to Pleasure Your Partner

The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts to Pleasure Your Partner

Searching for the perfect gift to celebrate your partner this Valentine’s Day? Look no further! Browse our list of sexual wellness gifts that are sure to pleasure your loved one.

Pegging for Beginners: A Comprehensive Guide

Pegging for Beginners: A Comprehensive Guide

Glass Dildos and Dilators: A Primer

Glass Dildos and Dilators: A Primer

How to Safely Do Anal: An Expert’s Guide

How to Safely Do Anal: An Expert’s Guide

What is Ethical Porn? The Ultimate Guide

What is Ethical Porn? The Ultimate Guide

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Everything You Should Know About How to Have Threesomes, Foursomes & Orgies

The Ultimate Anal Training Guide For Beginners

The Ultimate Anal Training Guide For Beginners

Anal Foreplay: 4 Tips for Amazing Butt Play

Anal Foreplay: 4 Tips for Amazing Butt Play

10 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Bottoming

10 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Bottoming

It's never too late to learn the correct way to bottom.

A View from the Bottom: TJ's Story

A View from the Bottom: TJ's Story

The sensuous man. TJ is a body worker, sensual wellness educator and a bottom.

How To Use Anal Toys: Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

How To Use Anal Toys: Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

A How-To Butt Toy Exploration Guide for Broadening Your Horizons

The Butt Battle of the Sexes

The Butt Battle of the Sexes

What Men vs. Women Do With Their Butts in the Bedroom

A View from the Top: Griffin's Story

A View from the Top: Griffin's Story

The performer. Griffin is a showman, in a relationship and a pure top.

10 Ways to Explore Sexual Pleasure Without a Partner

10 Ways to Explore Sexual Pleasure Without a Partner

In fact, we think the best time to learn about your sexuality is when you are by yourself. 

The First Time is Never that Good

The First Time is Never that Good

It's the first time that you enjoy it that counts.

A View from Both Sides: Stash's Story

A View from Both Sides: Stash's Story

The polymath. Stash is a photographer, an androphile and true vers.

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The Most Common Kinks and Fetishes in the U.S.

Want to know what your state's kink is? We determined the most common kinks in every state.

A View from the Top: Tristan's Story

A View from the Top: Tristan's Story

The femme top. Tristan is a super-skinny, queer fashion-forward, and a top.

View from the Bottom: Marco’s Story

View from the Bottom: Marco’s Story

The size queen. Marco is a colorful bearded queerdo and a bottom.

FLORIAN HETZ: Conversations with An Artist: Part 1

FLORIAN HETZ: Conversations with An Artist: Part 1

A conversation around his process and thoughts on “gay body image.”

How Often Americans Have Anal Sex

How Often Americans Have Anal Sex

Hear what 880 adults in the U.S. said about their butt play experience.