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Education at the forefront–on topics both popular and taboo.

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The Ultimate Anal Training Guide For Beginners

The Ultimate Anal Training Guide For Beginners

Body Cream vs. Lotion

Body Cream vs. Lotion

Gut Check: Can A Single Prebiotic/Probiotic Pill Boost Your Playtime

Gut Check: Can A Single Prebiotic/Probiotic Pill Boost Your Playtime

And no, we’re not talking Viagra or Molly. 

The Vulva-Owner’s Guide to Anal Sex

The Vulva-Owner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Anal Foreplay: 4 Tips for Amazing Butt Play

Anal Foreplay: 4 Tips for Amazing Butt Play

LGBTQ Pride is a Protest.

LGBTQ Pride is a Protest.

And it's closer to home than you think. 

Beyond Performance Anxiety

Beyond Performance Anxiety

How Mental Health Can Affect Your Sex Life

Your Post-Play Routine is Now Complete

Your Post-Play Routine is Now Complete

Your butt is going to say "ahhh". 

What Is Prostate Milking? A How-To Guide

What Is Prostate Milking? A How-To Guide

Want to learn? Come hither.

Getting to the Bottom of Versatility

Getting to the Bottom of Versatility

Learn to take it as good as you give it.

Clearing Up 5 Misconceptions About Preptime

Clearing Up 5 Misconceptions About Preptime

Butt is it true?

10 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Bottoming

10 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Bottoming

It's never too late to learn the correct way to bottom.

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A-spot: Myth or Reality?

It may be elusive, but it’s definitely real.

Rimming 101: A Complete Guide to Rimming

Rimming 101: A Complete Guide to Rimming

Hungry for tips? You’ve come to the right place.

Why Is an Isotonic Solution Better for Douching?

Why Is an Isotonic Solution Better for Douching?

Douching with tap water can make you more susceptible to STDs. Learn why isotonic solutions are the answer.

Tap Water vs Enemas: Everything You Need to Know

Tap Water vs Enemas: Everything You Need to Know

Forget what you know about enemas! Your pre-pleasure ritual may be doing more harm than good.

How to Get a Smooth Booty & Why It’s Important

How to Get a Smooth Booty & Why It’s Important

Scrubs are not just for your face anymore.

A View from the Bottom: TJ's Story

A View from the Bottom: TJ's Story

The sensuous man. TJ is a body worker, sensual wellness educator and a bottom.

How To Use Anal Toys: Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

How To Use Anal Toys: Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

A How-To Butt Toy Exploration Guide for Broadening Your Horizons

The Butt Battle of the Sexes

The Butt Battle of the Sexes

What Men vs. Women Do With Their Butts in the Bedroom

A View from the Top: Griffin's Story

A View from the Top: Griffin's Story

The performer. Griffin is a showman, in a relationship and a pure top.